Inner Personal Advice: February 2015

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I'm 39 years old a hairstylist, and I love to blog, read blogs, and learning new things! I do check who likes anything on my social media's if I am able(some don't give me the ability to view the likes) to and I will go check out your stuff as well :)


Thursday, February 26, 2015

Thankful Thursday!!! I'm so grateful...

I am so grateful for all that I have, because so many don't have as much!

I am thankful for:

The clothes on my back
The shoes on my feet,
The dishes in my cupboard
And even the food that we eat!

That there is a roof over my head,
A bathroom where I can get clean,
A bedroom with a bed,
A dresser and a closet,
For all that they keep.

So grateful for my loved ones,
Family and my friends,
And to all the random people I have met,
Because some are so caring, it brings hope in this sometimes overly cruel world!

Yes I did write this poem on the spot, please do not steal it without expressed permission and credit  to me as the creator/writer!

And for all my readers, and followers I would like to say a big big!!

Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Tuesday's Treasures! Tell me about yourself and your blog(s)!

I would like to dedicate my Tuesday blogs, to a Tuesday's Treasures blog post. I am aiming to make it for sharing other blogs and having them interviewed and shared here every Tuesday!
I would like each blogger to be showcased as a treasure.

I enjoy reading other blogger's blogs!

What is your blog about?
What would you like other bloggers to know about you?
How long have you been blogging?
What made you deside to start blogging?
How often do you blog? (ei. once a month, once a week, so many times a month/week?)
Do you monetize?
How many places do you share you blog to?
How many views do you get a day roughly?

I'll add more questions here for future! I'd like to see if I get any interest 1st, thanks

Friday, February 20, 2015

Forgetful Friday ...About Thankful Thursday!

Hello everyone
It's Friday, and I realized I forgot to post my "Thankful Thursday" post! So today I am going to post some quoted pictures about being thankful and appreciation!

First of all I would like to say, Thank You, to my readers and those who pop in to view my different posts! I hope you all have a great day and a wonderful weekend!

Monday, February 16, 2015

Monday Motivation!!

Good Morning

I hope everyone had a great weekend! Today I just want to send out some motivational quotes and a little word from myself to you all to keep you motivated in life and whatever is happening in your life right now! All images are linked to where they are credited to!

First of all I'd like to share this link!! Affirmations are very important!

Quote #1 - 
Believe in yourself! Action is better than no action!,d.eXY&psig=AFQjCNEBLQ1Hxay9_X1x55h4OFZUqCwhGQ&ust=1424184404279170

Quote #2 -
Don't let others bring you down!,d.eXY&psig=AFQjCNEBLQ1Hxay9_X1x55h4OFZUqCwhGQ&ust=1424184404279170 

Quote # 3 - 
This is my favorite one! The only one who can get you there is you!,d.eXY&psig=AFQjCNEBLQ1Hxay9_X1x55h4OFZUqCwhGQ&ust=1424184404279170

Quote #4 - 
Self motivation and Self Discipline are very important when sticking to your goals!,d.eXY&psig=AFQjCNEBLQ1Hxay9_X1x55h4OFZUqCwhGQ&ust=1424184404279170

Quote #5 - 
Always remember this, no matter what or where you are in life!,d.eXY&psig=AFQjCNEBLQ1Hxay9_X1x55h4OFZUqCwhGQ&ust=1424184404279170

Have a great day, and week! And as always, stay positive and believe in yourself!

Thursday, February 12, 2015

Thankful Thursday!

Thanks to those who take the time to read this long winded blog post. This isn't about anyone in particular! 

Life and Time!

What are you doing with them? Are you happy? Are you ever happy?

Some people invest their lives trying to be happy, but forget to think about what they are doing that is causing their unhappiness and are blaming and or taking it out on others! I see happy people everyday, some of them don't have their dream job, some just make the most of it and not worry about what they do as being a cause for their unhappiness.

If you're truly unhappy, I believe a long time of self reflection is necessary, in order to find the cause. Others CAN NOT do that for you!!! I'm not saying this to be a smart -a$$ I'm speaking from experience, and with that being said, I don't try to manipulate others to make them feel bad for their choices! I try my best to keep others positive, to keep motivated to find what makes them happy rather than dwelling on it! No matter how I feel myself.

Things I did to make myself feel better and it didn't happen overnight:
  • I looked for things I liked to do
  1. found books that peeked my interests
  2. taught myself how to do new things (the things I was interested in like drawing, painting, become better with my words, etc)
  3. research other hobbies I might like to try (wired jewelry, scrap-booking)
  • Go back to school; finish that, so I could go to another school of my choice, so I could enter "that" career field! (Hairstyling)
  • Look for daily motivations (I actually started with this) 
  1. The daily motivations changed my life for the better
  2. Daily affirmations can change your thought process if you keep them there daily, and stick with it!
  • Stop trying to make others feel guilty/bad for how you're feeling! That isn't a way to make yourself feel better in the long run. Everyone has their own problems, you want to tell someone? Get counseling, It helps too!
  • Go for a long jog/walk, for meditative self reflecting thoughts in nature!!
  1. it's good for your health(mental, physical, and emotional)
  2. it brings peace of mind
  • Stretch out your spare time wisely!
  1. don't waste it dwelling on how you feel all day dragging it on and on, repeating something you don't like or telling yourself over and over again how depressed and unhappy you are, it ISN'T going to make it go away, it will only prolong it and make you feel worse (again speaking from experience!!!)
  2. Look for enjoyable things to do! (Find activities for you and your spouse and or children to do outside of the home) Don't have time? I don't believe you! That's you making excuses for yourself. How do I know? I have done it plenty of times myself. Find the time...Period. Quit your whining about it! Worse things have happened in this world!!
So I am going through some things right now, but instead of trying to make others feel bad for me, I am just living life and going with it! I don't like to allow myself to dwell anymore, because I already know how that will pan out! I've already been there and done that.

So what am I thankful for? For years of affirmations, years of self reflection(when I needed it most), years of trying to help others and for those grateful ones who appreciated it!

I'm thankful I have a roof over my head, food in my refrigerator and cupboards, for being born with sight and hearing, and having hands and feet and being able to walk (because I know others aren't as lucky to be blessed with such things).

I'm grateful for my parents, who taught me how to be grateful for everything I have, because I could have less(and I know what that's like)! I'm grateful to be able to help others and tell them how they could help themselves become happier(but I wont stick around and tolerate/take their anger, when I'm trying to help them), or help them find/with the resources to help themselves!

So PLEASE, before you criticize others, when they've only been nice and helpful to you, STOP yourself and self reflect and ask yourself WHY you're doing that! And for those offered help, please just say you don't want help in a nice manner, and stop being such an a-hole! That's not the way to make/keep friends. Overly uptight people are no fun to be around and make others feel bad (whether they know it or not), please just relax and let things be!

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Thanks to those who took the time to read this long winded blog post in full today, and I really hope it's helped you in some positive way! There is always something to be thankful for.

As always, stay positive, believe in yourself and your ability to progress positively in the happier direction!